notes

1. take care of yourself (self-care)
   • focus on your health, relationships, and financial well-being, in that order. proactively address health concerns, as many age-related issues are difficult to reverse. cultivate healthy habits through sufficient sleep, nutritious food, moderate exercise, and regular mindfulness practices.
   • minimize stress in both your professional and personal life. nurture a few trusted relationships, recognizing the complexity of human connections. extend support to others when possible.
   • forgive yourself for past the mistakes and errors. all human beings make mistake, ofcouse, each mistake comes with the cost.
2. have self-confidence
   • it is important to trust yourself and have good amount of confidence in your abilities. it is difficult for others to trust you when you are not confident.
   • watch this ted talk
3. stand up for yourself
   • stand up for yourself - don’t allow other(s) to mistreat you and take advantage of you.
   • stand up for others - ask and support others when they are distressed situations.
4. work hard
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5. you are on your own (தன் கையே தனக்கு உதவி)
   • take ownership of your journey. While seeking help is wise, don’t expect it to always materialize.
   • remember those who lend a hand.
   • understand that everyone is focused on their own ambitions.
   • your life is your responsibility ~~ step up and take charge.
6. do not please others
   • aiming to please others always end up badly.
   • you must focus learning, output and best outcome.
   • do not say YES - before understanding fully and getting clarity needed. you must say NO as much as possible in life!
7. be organized
   • be organized. have clarity with purporse.
   • do the work well and thorughly.
   • read more big five personality traits
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8. be good at sales
   • do not leave the oppurtunity to get visibility
   • do not be shy to promote what you did - there is nothing wrong in that
9. do best thing early; compound interest
   • work hard in early!